Looking for God in All the Wrong Places makes the very valid point that people who spend their time doing the drugs, sex, and rock and roll - or the money, homes and cars route - are in fact looking for something entirely different. They are looking for God.
Just stop and think for a moment. They are obviously searching for something, and they obviously do not know what because they are trying everything. It would be amazing if they just stopped and listened to their heart for a moment. But that is the trick; those lifestyles only work if you are dancing as fast as you can.
Everyone should read Looking for God in All the Wrong Places because it helps you to recognize the traps lying in wait for you and helps you detour around them.